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Self
Advocacy:
Step 2: Define Your Goals
It’s not enough to just have a complaint. Envision what the
solution will look like when your problem is solved and perhaps
what steps you need taken to get you there. This is what you should
communicate to people who can help you. If you have a clear and
consistent message, others are more likely to want to help you.
When
defining your goal, it’s important to know the difference between
"wants" and "needs." When adults see that you
understand the difference between wants and needs, they are bound
to listen to you more seriously.
| You
might WANT... |
...but
you might NEED |
| Your
own room
Doritos
Hair gel
A computer
To play on the Football team
A walkman
An electric tooth brush
Internet access
Your own private phone
A car
Jeans from Old Navy |
A
safe home
Nutritious meals
Hygiene
An education
Regular medical check-ups
Immunizations
Regular dental check-ups
Freedom from harrassment
Legal representation in court
Counseling or Therapy |
Get
the idea?
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